Why are big girls so afraid that they will never find love..?

afatfox:

because we’re conditioned to believe that we’ll never be good enough to find love and that the only way to be happy, successful, and loved is to be thin.

ie there’s a multi billion dollar industry telling us to hate our bodies, the media doesn’t represent us other than to make us a joke/to use our headless bodies as scare tactics for an ‘epidemic’, and women are constantly told that our physical being is so much more important than anything else we’ll ever have going for us.